QUESTIONS YOU & YOUR PARTNER WILL LOVE
How Compatible Are You?
A Relationship Tool To Guide you to better Outcomes
Have you ever found yourself asking…
1. Is my partner truly the right one?
2. Can I build a lifelong journey with this person?
3. I’m not sure if they’re “my person”…
If questions like these have crossed your mind,
then, The Relationship Lab is exactly where you belong.
The Relationship Lab is a space meant for you to examine your relationship with focus and honesty. Just as scientists use a laboratory to study things up close, here you’ll use questions to look closely at your values, your partner’s values, and how the two align. Think of these questions as tools to help you dissect your relationship. They are designed to highlight areas of compatibility and reveal where work may be needed—so you can avoid unnecessary conflict, frustration, and heartache.
The process is simple:
1. Answer each question honestly.
2. Allow your partner to do the same.
3. Use your responses as a foundation for deeper conversations.
By the end, you’ll have a clearer picture of your relationship—where you’re strong together, and where effort is required to grow.
Why the Relationship Lab? Typically, couples seek therapy once challenges have already surfaced in their relationship. But what if many of those issues could be prevented? Engaging thoughtfully with these questions will allow you and your partner to address important topics early on—laying a stronger foundation and potentially reducing the need for therapy down the road.
After nearly 20 years in psychiatry, I have seen firsthand that peaceful, resilient relationships are built on exceptionally clear communication. And clarity doesn’t happen by accident—it requires the courage to talk openly about topics that hold deep personal meaning. For many couples, these conversations are difficult, and in some cases, the topics themselves aren’t even on their radar. That is why we created this resource.
These questions are designed to spark meaningful, sometimes uncomfortable discussions that will strengthen your connection to your partner, and help safeguard your relationship/marriage against common pitfalls. Relationship dissolution is frequently rooted in miscommunication, underscoring the importance of proactive and transparent dialogue. Think of this as a “vaccination before the test”—a proactive way to align on values, expectations, and emotional needs before challenges arise.
Imagine asking your partner questions like these:
1. What was your childhood home environment like?
2. How did your parents or guardians treat each other?
3. What is your credit score?
4. If we cannot conceive biologically, would you be open to adoption or surrogacy?
5. Do you see yourself as someone who values honesty and can handle hearing the unflinching truth?
6. Would you describe yourself as someone who avoids conflict?
7. Do you tend to shy away from difficult or heavy topics?
8. How do you envision your lifestyle—slow-paced or adventurous?
Your relationship, under the microscope!
REVIEWS
James A
"These questions are the lifeline of whether a marriage will be successful or not. These questions are the (A, B, C's - airway , breathing and circulation) foundation of whether a marriage can indeed survive the concept of for better or worse" James A.
J.S.
"This is so amazing. I wish I had this when I was with XX. I'd probably figure out that it wasn't for me or for us" - J. S.
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